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Princess Treatment?
last summer, I heard this split youth sermon, this person(cant remember names) taught us guys that girlfriends were and are always meant to be treated as princesses rather than today’s perception as cheerleaders, or trophy girls or whatnot.
and i thought (as i tried to pay close attentiveness, but most likely drifting off somewhere), “this guy. this guy knows what he’s talking about.”
Though its only been a year since that lesson, in teenager years that’s dinosaur ages. Plus having my extremely short attention span, I can’t seem to recall more specific details about the lesson but that specific detail/idea of his.
And that has always stayed in my mind.
As a Christian guy, I do keep my standards for girlfriends than most, if not all of my other Non-Christian friends. First my type of girl has to be a Christian, who has an obvious love for Him, then the personal pluses i prefer comes after, which include but are open to ,her sense of humor/personality, then if keeps herself well in terms of appearance and how she dresses, yknow, she has a sense of #swagger etc. lol (then other qualities, like talents such as singing/dancing arent necessities, but are definite pluses haha) But that first part, being a Christian, the whole Proverbs 31 Girl. The perfect woman. Shes the real deal if she encompasses that.
But, and maybe its just me, but half the time i think she’s just going to materialize before me in some time in my life. and thats the problem. for me, for other guys, Christians and non Christians alike, that girls are just going to come and its going to be the other way around where the girl tries to work around him, however she can.
But what have I, in my behalf, done to think like that, to deserve that kind of perfect girl for me? Where has chivalry gone? I still believe it still lives, yet it has become less evident in present times. That time where the guy pursues the girl from the ends of earth, just to satisfy her. and we wonder why girls nowadays always be falling to chick flicks, (like idk, Twilight or the notebook maybe?) and we question why they set their standards so high?
but isnt that just how its supposed to be? well yeah, ofcourse girls also has to meet us halfway and grow themselves, but even then, as men (even more so if you’re a Christian), i believe its our responsibility to be there to meet them. If she’s meant to be the princess of my heart, then I have to be that prince that goes to her. (yeah pretty corny iknow) But in every story, princes go hard or go home, bring on that white horse, some crazy sword, ready to slay a freakin’ dragon if needed. they dont go half hearted in that junk, In comparison, what have I done to deserve that girl?
Well, Im not tryna say we should be all jacked-city now, but we should all do our part as well, & that differs from guy to guy, but for me, as a follower of Christ, what I truly desire is to seek Him, and grow in Him, before any thought of pursuing any girl. I stump myself, How can I treat a girl right, if i havent even grown as a person, and as a Christian? if my relationship isnt strong with God, how can i expect to make the right decisions with another person in my life?
This is the mentality that im trying to go for. Seek Him, Place your love in Him, and He will lead you to her, as a man who’s confident in the Lord. and idk, it might be in a few months, it might be in a few years. #singlelife #yolo haha
i can’t know for sure, but all i know is that God has a plan for me. So it’s not even about the girl not being right with me, its about myself not being right with her in my opinion. She could be the best woman for me, its worthless if i cant be the best man that i can for her.
God, i dont need a Proverbs 31 girl if its not in your will, But rather, I pray to be the man that a Proverbs 31 girl deserves.
An innovative initiative is taking place in the Philippines to bring sustainable lighting to homes in impoverished communities. Empty plastic bottles are installed in the roof, filled with water and bleach they refract sunlight. These “solar light bulbs” provide light equivalent to a 55watt light bulb.
See how they’re made here. From Visual News
So ill.
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i get the craziest ideas sometimes…
Indirect posts,
If you’re going to make an indirect post towards me, why not just say it to my face? At least it would show me that you’re not a pussy to confront me about something instead of saying shit through a post. If you got something against me, tell me straight to my face rather than gossiping or posting an indirect post. It just shows me you’re too scared of how I’d look at you or everyone else. If you want to stand up for something so bad, DO IT.
I’m just inputting, isn’t making a post indirectly addressing indirect posts made by people, is in essence an indirect post? SO, in transition, didnt your argument fall apart from there? Am I the being crazy here Tumblr World, or am I right?
I believe in old-fashioned relationships.
I believe that guys should take the initiative move and ask the girl out. I also believe in commitment and gender roles in the relationship; the men providing lead and protection while the women follow. Yeah I know generations have passed and things have changed since then and many would think that this idea is sexist. But in my interpretation, women and men have endless differences and no matter how much of a feminist you are, you must recognize that men and women are built differently. Ironically though, that’s the beauty of love; having two contrasting objects fit together in a warm and appeased harmony. I believe in moving slowly (there’s no need rush) and building a foundation with the one you want to be with. I don’t like how in today’s relationship, people are dating as soon as someone says they like you. What happened to the get-to-know-each-other process? Don’t be with someone just because it seems right at the moment but be with them because you truly believe that it would work out in the long run. I like long relationships and I do not believe in hook-ups. I don’t know how many people would agree with me but this is the way I think.
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like i really say real things on a public social networking blog site. ha. im better than that. swerve.
People always say “what’s the point in liking someone who doesn’t like you back”. They are right, there isn’t a point. But you can’t help who you like, it’s not up to you. Your heart kinda just decides for you and there is no turning back once your heart makes up its mind.
too bad i can. cus im a baller.
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